Wish that nobody else pass through the pain and suffering as that of the parents of Pravin. If we do not come together and raise our voice, such tragedies will be repeated and there won’t be any answers coming. Most of the Malayalee community is not involved in the community. Most are satisfied with the achievements they made. A sort of complacency has overtaken most of us. In Kerala we were very dependent on each other. We could not live there without the cooperation of others. Here most are self-sufficient, and so no need to involve in community affairs. Each community is withdrawn to itself. Religious and other community leaders have contributed to this in providing all the members’ needs as the department stores are providing here. So they need not go anywhere else to meet their social needs. Church and religious organization provide cultural programs, dance and music within their compound. The leaders might be protecting the sheep too much lest they go astray into other flocks. They do not want to hear that their sheep got into any sort of trouble. When tragedy strike, then only we wake up. To solve problems like this we need the help of other communities. Priests and religious leaders can’t solve such problems without the help of others in the community. If we have to live here with dignity, we need to come together and cooperate with other communities. Religious leaders can’t meet all the needs of the sheep. They need the help of politicians and rulers. In the history of the Roman Empire the Pope always sought the protection of the state, and maintained good relationships with rulers. We must encourage our members to hold political offices. They can develop goodwill relationships with other communities and administrators here. They only can help us in such situations. Our voting records are abysmal. To know what is going on around, and to get out and vote is the first step for a change. We must understand the importance of holding political offices. To have a person elected to a political office here we need to work together and seek the goodwill of other communities here. We need to wake up and cooperate to live here with dignity. We need to have our fair share of political offices in our community. For that we need to work together. When we spend our energy on Thiruvalla, Mallappally and Kottayam associations, we do not have time to come together and stand together as a larger community. Our energy is being dissipated. Malayalee Associations leadership also is shortsighted. They do not have a vision to bring the whole community under their umbrella. They are fighting to keep the assets and leadership under their control. We need to wake up from this slumber state